Detective John Watson leaned back in his chair, staring at the words on the screen before him. Another perplexing case had landed on his desk, but this time, it wasn't a typical criminal investigation. It was a puzzle of the mind, a search for the source of emotional suffering and how to overcome it. It was a case that required a different kind of detective work.

"In this episode, we're going to dive deeper into the source of our emotional suffering and how we can overcome that," Detective Watson read aloud, scratching his chin thoughtfully. He couldn't help but wonder how he would crack this case, where the clues would lead him.

One of the biggest illusions, he read, was the belief that most of our suffering comes from outside of ourselves. People tend to attribute their pain to circumstances, situations, or other individuals. But Detective Watson knew better. He understood that the external environment was mostly beyond our control. It involved other people, each with their own free will and choices.

He recalled encounters with individuals who had set their lives up in this paradigm, causing pain not only for themselves but also for those close to them. The detective had been an outside observer, feeling the sting of their attacks and defences. But he knew that their actions were not the true cause of his suffering.

Putting on his detective hat, Detective Watson delved deeper into the analysis. He realized that his own judgments were at the heart of the matter. He had believed that others shouldn't be where they were or behave the way they did, leading to disappointment and disapproval. It was the pain of comparison, wishing things were different and comparing them to an idealised version. This suffering was self-inflicted, disturbing only his own peace of mind.

The detective understood that resistance to "what is" only created negative states within himself. The frustration, disappointment, and resistance were his own internal experiences, not caused by the actions of others. They were merely reflections of their own conditioned perspectives. The truth hit him: people's actions had nothing to do with him. It was his own thoughts that generated the suffering he felt.

With each revelation, Detective Watson felt closer to the truth. He discovered that the real source of suffering lay in comparing circumstances to how they should or could be, resisting the present moment. It was the age-old routine of comparing and despairing, a cycle that perpetuated suffering.

But a detective never left a case unsolved. The key to overcoming this illusion of suffering was desire and belief in change. Detective Watson knew that without the desire to feel different and the belief in the possibility of change, there was nothing to work with. It was time to shatter the illusion and reclaim control over his own experiences.

As the detective pondered the case, he realized that everyone had their own lessons to learn, their own conditioning to overcome. Some seeds would only germinate in the right conditions, and not everyone would be interested in changing. In those cases, he had to trust in the process of life.

It was a hard truth to accept, even for a seasoned detective like John Watson. There were times when he wished desperately for things to be different. But in the midst of that struggle, he saw the liberation that came with desiring to feel different, to experience life in a new way, even when circumstances were beyond control.

Detective Watson couldn't help but reflect on the implications of this case. If people weren't afraid to feel any emotion, how different would their lives be? Fear often held individuals back from pursuing their dreams, from taking risks and venturing into the unknown. The fear of failure, humiliation, and what others might think paralysed them.

Detective Watson couldn't wait to crack this case. He knew that understanding the illusion of suffering and overcoming fear could be a game changer. It was time to apply this wisdom, to pursue a life free from the shackles of suffering and fear.

The detective closed his laptop. This case had left him questioning everything, he needed further exploration of the mind, a search for truth and liberation. Detective John Watson was determined to find more answers to what lay hidden within the human psyche. Perhaps this podcast would provide him with more insights…

Listen to Podcast episode 23 - The Source of our Suffering.