In this episode, we delve into the complexities of relationships and the detrimental effects of having an "operating manual" for our partners. We explore how, over time, we compile a list of rules and expectations for our significant other, often without their knowledge, and how this can lead to dissatisfaction and even the end of relationships. We challenge the traditional model of relationships and propose an alternative: tossing out the manual altogether. By treating our partners as separate individuals with their own dreams, thoughts, and priorities, we can create a more harmonious and fulfilling relationship. We address objections and explore creative solutions for household responsibilities, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility and open communication. Ultimately, we aim to free ourselves from the burdens of unrealistic expectations and find new ways to build happy and thriving relationships.